People do not want to be around negative people. We all have them in our lives. The complainers, the whiners, the braggers. The ones who are the one-uppers and the put-downers.
But then there are the ones that when people talk about them they say, "wow that chick is so amazing. I'm always in a good mood when I am around her!". There it is - positive attracts positive. I have one friend in particular that I am thinking of when I write this. Even when she is in a bad mood, she is authentic. Positive and light.
If you don’t know what I mean look it up – it's for real. And try it, just for fun. One of my favourite humans, Danielle LaPorte wrote about it here too- her "Apple Experiment". I tried it myself. The apple is also really a thing.
Read - people (and apples) don't want to be around you if you transmit negative energy. Like, ever.
Everything you feel is energy. The guy you just don't trust but don't know why...energy. The doctor you instantly trust...energy. The anxiety you feel when you into a sticky situation...ok, you get it. Trust your gut and your spidey-senses at all times. They are not wrong.
I have made a point in my life to keep those close to me who make me feel that light. They make my day better after I talk to them and they remind me I am strong when I feel weak. People who do not, I thank them for their part in my journey and wish them well, in my head and heart. I working on forgiving those I have felt betrayed by, because they were not meant to continue on with me. Now that I am learning more and trusting more.. I am attracting more of the light souls into my life because I am asking for it. And I hope also because I am bringing light to them. Much love. Xo
Barbie Quinn is a dancer, now also business girl, who has a lot to say. Life is better together. And in the sun. Runs Wharton Event Management with her mom, sister and most unreal team ever. Events where dancers feel like they belong.